I celebrated my REAL Mother’s Day today.

It was perfect!

I planned the whole thing and we all had a blast.

Last Sunday- I was studying, it was 🥶 and 🌧

Today was ☀️ and gorgeous.

I don’t wait for anyone to celebrate me anymore.

I decide what I want and just go for it.

This way I get exactly what I want and zero disappointment.

Whatever others do for me is just icing on the cake.

I know others have thoughts- it’s sad or self-centered to plan my celebrations but those people are at the mercy of others.

Thank God I finally chose to give permission to ME and not care what anyone else thinks.

Yup, you read that right.

I know you want to feel just as important and empowered as I do now too!

It feels super uncomfortable at first but we have to work through all the ”shoulds” first

I should care for others first

I should have gratitude for what I have

I should be happy because on paper everything looks good.

I call BS on all of it.

Message me to learn how to quit the “shoulds”

I promise you that it will be the best decision you literally made for YOU 💖

XO

Payal

Be Your Own #1 Advocate- Support for Women Physicians

Life Coach for Women of Color in Medicine